Some people just never learn...

[sdldawn]

or they do through some long lessons (me).. My girl broke things off with me back in january, a three year relationship (i knew somethin was up) lied to me for 2 weeks about talkin to this guy.. broke up and went to fucked this guy 2 or 3 weeks later... he stops callin her so she rings me up.. I listen to her problems (big mistake) and fell back into it all cause I loved her.. she's movin to another college and pretty much decided to hang out with me until then.. I couldnt take it anymore cause i knew she basically was using me.. I let her know it.. and she didnt have much to say about it.. leavin me with proof that she's just no good...
I dont know why I wrote this.. Im pretty reserved about my private life.. guess it was kindof bottled up..
talk about a reality check.. there is literally few people u can trust in the world..

[Hero1]

that shit breaks ya heart man.. so why couldnt you say no to her if u knew she was using you?

[Louis85]

Love is one of the hardest emotions to turn off. It makes us do all kinds of stupid stuff. Sorry that it went down like that for you man. Remember, whatever doesn't kill you makes you wiser (or at least it should). Good thing you recognized that she was no good for you before you really got into her. NO TRUST = NO RELATIONSHIP. Her deviousness will catch up with her, it always does. Look at it this way man, she spared you maybe a LIFETIME of misery. Your MOMENT of misery will pass by faster than summer dress on a windy day. Hang in there. :blahblah: (I hope my 2 cents helps ya.)

Louis

[Boogie]

Dawg... I just want to say I feel for you... My ex-girlfriend was not only mentally abusive but, and you might laugh at me for this, but she used to beat the shit out me, I am talking I had bloody noses black eyes ... Anyways a couple of months ago I thouhg about taking her back. You just got to be strong, and sometimes just finding someone else to fill the lonliness in the mean time isnt a bad idea. Thats the way I look at ti anyway.

[justafan]

Dang SDL and Boogie, times can get pretty bad.

Louis is exactly right, again. Also there are parts of your life before her, or without her and you just have to get back to those asap and realize that they give you many more options of being a better person and growing positively. No more being stymied and codependant for happiness and feeling OK about yourself, which is a very good thing.

Its all downhill from the shitty times, enjoy the ride!

[sdldawn]

Thanks guys.. everyone's input made me feel better.. Yall are great.