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Anybody have any tips on how I can get my boyfriend to realize that when I say "I want to spend time with you" it doesn't mean "I want to have sex with you right here right now"?
Anybody have any tips on how I can get my boyfriend to realize that when I say "I want to spend time with you" it doesn't mean "I want to have sex with you right here right now"?
Nope!
Alright
Tap the lightpole and we'll be jammin all night
And ain't nobody callin' the cops
'Cause everybody's here freakin', if they're older they're doin the rock
And every block from all around
Comes runnin' to the park when they hear the sound
And soon the word's spreadin' through our part of town
"Yo, 40 Park y'all, Jam-On's gettin down"
Yeah...
Jam-On Productions:Website Forum
try this.... tell him you want to have sex with him, right there, right then, maybe the oppisite will work.
Nope!
Alright
Tap the lightpole and we'll be jammin all night
And ain't nobody callin' the cops
'Cause everybody's here freakin', if they're older they're doin the rock
And every block from all around
Comes runnin' to the park when they hear the sound
And soon the word's spreadin' through our part of town
"Yo, 40 Park y'all, Jam-On's gettin down"
Yeah...
Jam-On Productions:Website Forum
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be honest and straight up. if he dont understand hes a bumb ya don't need him
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You have to be blunt as hell. And come right out and say...."Look you horney S.O.B. we are not going to have sex today, so do what you got to do, but it aint happenin' " what women fail to realize is even the nicest guy has sex on his mind 95% of the day... Am I right Coz?
"he who disowns me before men will be disowned before the angels of God."
Jesus Christ...Luke 12:9
Absolutely!
Alright
Tap the lightpole and we'll be jammin all night
And ain't nobody callin' the cops
'Cause everybody's here freakin', if they're older they're doin the rock
And every block from all around
Comes runnin' to the park when they hear the sound
And soon the word's spreadin' through our part of town
"Yo, 40 Park y'all, Jam-On's gettin down"
Yeah...
Jam-On Productions:Website Forum
Think it'll work? Even with a particularly insistant guy?
*I feel like I'm talking about a cockroach problem*
Nope!
Alright
Tap the lightpole and we'll be jammin all night
And ain't nobody callin' the cops
'Cause everybody's here freakin', if they're older they're doin the rock
And every block from all around
Comes runnin' to the park when they hear the sound
And soon the word's spreadin' through our part of town
"Yo, 40 Park y'all, Jam-On's gettin down"
Yeah...
Jam-On Productions:Website Forum
Seriously, to give you a serious answer it would help to have a little more info. How old is he, does he live with you, how long have you been together, how often do you do things together, how often do you have sex...?
Alright
Tap the lightpole and we'll be jammin all night
And ain't nobody callin' the cops
'Cause everybody's here freakin', if they're older they're doin the rock
And every block from all around
Comes runnin' to the park when they hear the sound
And soon the word's spreadin' through our part of town
"Yo, 40 Park y'all, Jam-On's gettin down"
Yeah...
Jam-On Productions:Website Forum
and once coz gets off on that im sure he has some seious questions for you as wellOriginally Posted by Cozymandias
Seriously, to give you a serious answer it would help to have a little more info. How old is he, does he live with you, how long have you been together, how often do you do things together, how often do you have sex...?
I've got amnesia.. I can't remember..
I'm just suprised that he finally gave up the one word responses. I was beginning to wonder if we need to change his meds.....
there we go, just right. keep walking...
woooooaahhhhh...good job guys..keep up the great work...roflmao
you make me so proud..*tear*
Needs and wants work both ways. He wants a ton of physical time and you want a lot more relating time. Try to figure out what your relationship needs to make it work. Does he need to listen to you? Do you need to tell him?Communicate these wants and needs with him. If he doesn't listen to your concerns then your communication is just background noise.
Ahyhizzahoo!
If he does not listen please have the joy to know that you are the total embodiment of a sleek, svelte, virulent sex machine! YEAH! Wait, virulent…that means young and full of strength and vigor, yeah? No…it means poisonous, infectious and prone to cause disease? I should have said virile? Oh my…
I stopped listening a long long time ago...now I can eat a peach for minutes!
See what happens when you try to help?
Forgot 1, what do you guys do when you do things together? Do you go out a lot, do you just stay in and watch TV, do you do a lot of everyday things or do you go on a lot of "dates"?
Alright
Tap the lightpole and we'll be jammin all night
And ain't nobody callin' the cops
'Cause everybody's here freakin', if they're older they're doin the rock
And every block from all around
Comes runnin' to the park when they hear the sound
And soon the word's spreadin' through our part of town
"Yo, 40 Park y'all, Jam-On's gettin down"
Yeah...
Jam-On Productions:Website Forum
Maybe another question should be... Why don't YOU want to have sex with HIM right then and there?
"he who disowns me before men will be disowned before the angels of God."
Jesus Christ...Luke 12:9
Seriously, to give you a serious answer it would help to have a little more info. How old is he, does he live with you, how long have you been together, how often do you do things together, how often do you have sex...?
He's 22, I'm 23. We don't live together, but are considering that option. We've been together for going on 4 years.... He works days, and I work nights so we aren't together a lot, and when we are we don't go out a lot, at least not date like things. The sex question..... varies. Sometimes we go for over a week without, sometimes multiple times in a day. I think the frustration for me is that I'm a giver. What ever he wants he basically gets, and the more I give the more he wants. The more he wants the more I resent giving because I'm not getting what I want. It's just a big ole selfish cycle.
Communication babes...before it snowballs!
just tell him what is on your mind. then there should not be any doubt. communication is the key to any relationship, hope things work out for ya
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