ok ladies & gentleman I about to vent a valid complaint i'm sure some of you might have had at one time or another.
I met up with some friends a few hrs ago & we decieded to go Clubbing. I am one who LOVES to club. I am far from being the skinnest in the world, but damn straight if I dont know how to move what I've got (i'm seriously not being cocky but it is how it is...)
Anyway...we're out, having a good time. Now mind you know I know everyone goes to a club for different reasons.
You have those wanting to meet someone, ligitimatly. Those trying to hook up. Those there to have fun. And those who were dragged along,etc u get my point.
Well we always go with having fun, its not about meeting someone at a club. Its just not our style. We are there to dance, have fun, and go home.
Anyway....the drama that is my d@mn life....
We're out on the floor having a ball. We're not worried about who's watching us, around us, whatever.
Its standard to brush off the occasional guy trying to get up in your business. Lol, before long your dancing up next to your girlfriend to keep some creep from getting in between the two of you.
Well we have a guy friend with us who is sorta playin' our crowd control while doing his own thing. We don't mind dancing with people, having a good time, but well......some guys know No boundaries.
This guy had been on the floor most of the night, making his way thru the crowd. He kept coming over to us, asking each of us to come get a drink with him, etc. We'd smile...offer a polite no thanks and continue to dance. Typical club scum, lol.
We had worked up quite a sweat and stopped to get a drink. We were standing a few feet from the dance floor talking to one of my girlfriends when ( I swear the stuff doesn't freaking happen to anyone else)......................
This guy comes up behind me,( those who have met me or even if you haven't, I'm short...lol...5 foot. I by no means have a ghetto booty but well...i have enough) and lays his hands RIGHT up on my ass and literally pushes me to the dance floor. I was like scooted by pure force. I'm looking around like what the f**k is going on. I stumble a step ahead and turn around. I'm like WHAT are you doing???
In the meantime my girl is grabbing our guy friend and trying to come get me. Its crowded so its not like we have open walkways. I take a step back and he's like Come on honey, lets dance. I'm looking at him like he is a piece of dirt at this point. I mutter a no thanks, keep your hands off me, and try to walk over to my friend.
The SOB has the nerve to side step me and try again...oh come on, i've seen you dance, I know you wanna get it on. Lol I seriously stop to look around like this guy can't POSSIBLY be serious, laughing. He grabs my arm and trys to turn me around. I am by no means strong, lol far from it, but i've been taught a few good police moves. thank GOD!! :bash:
For once my height came in handy. Sorry guys...but I racked the hell out of him, perfect level, and fortunatly my huge ring I had put on sealed the deal. I simply side stepped him doubleing over and walked away as I let the bouncer step in. Needless to say we left after only being there for like an hour.
THIS is the kind of stuff I don't like going clubbing anymore. You can't even go & just dance & have an good time anymore. I guess just a reminder why I hadn't gotten in a long time. Plus it scares the hell out of me....If it hadn't worked out in my favor I can't even imagine what I would have done, i'd be helpless. I wouldn't have known how to get out of it.
I swear I've got some kind of wierd vibe following me around........
I couldn't write stranger fiction if I tried!!!! THe truth has got its own horribly messed up story to go along with them lately......