well the new server setup is woking great just in time for the router to start failing. I'm not 100% sure yet but me and my ISP have been poking around the network to see why we randomly go down...so far we're pointing fingers at the router on my end, we could still be wrong so we're gonna check the next closest router to mine to see if it's screwing things up. It's like all this crap happens at the same time, but look at the bright side if I have to dig up more money for a new router there won't be anything left on the network that could fail that hasn't already been replaced.
So anyway expect it to be up and down at random times till I get this worked out...I'll know for sure on Monday about what's going on.